We the Women

I’m a woman 
They defile my right to live freely
They think they can tell me how to think, dress and be
They want to contain me with rules,
Chain me with seen and unseen fears
They fasten my wrists and feet with their scriptures
Bind me with their customs,
They think what wins my heart are big mansions and ornaments exquisite,
Only if they knew that the shine of gold,
is still a cage which holds me captive.

I’m a woman
I’m not safe
They worship clay goddesses with utmost reverence,
But violate my living body
They bow down to goddess Durga at her feet,
And tower over me to dominate and defeat
They drape stones, marbles and books with magnificent fabrics and jewels,
And disrobe me against my cries with their might and muscles.

I’m a woman
They tell me how I should look
They shame my face and body,
Which don’t fit their standards of beauty
They tell me not to be loud
Not to resist
Not to be heard
Not to have eyes dreamy
They’d rather that I hide myself and crumble
Than rise to the proud woman I can be.

I’m a woman
They stamp my status with a Miss, Ms or Mrs
Whereas the Mr remains a mister-ry
They ask me to give up my maiden name,
to show in marriage who they claim.

I’m a woman
My children don’t get my name
Although I bear them in my womb,
Birth them,
And feed them from my breasts
When I leave my village as a bride, my name is torn
Whilst the name of the man lives on.

I am a woman
They tell me to stay in a marriage come what may
Even if it makes me less
I’m blamed of being vile if I choose to step out of the wedlock,
To live my dreams
They want me to be a ‘good example’-
A happy face for photo frames.

I am a woman
They think I’m vain or unchaste,
When I choose to be single
They find me to be a threat,
An aberration
They scan me from head to toe
Looking for a “defect”
And exclude me from their heart.

I’m a woman
I’m more than my face and flesh
See my soul, see my spirit’s presence
See the fire in my eyes
The anguish in my heart
I’m not a battle to be conquered
I’m not to be tamed
See the devine in my femininity
Without which the Earth is not complete
My body is the Earth’s temple
Do not judge it
Do not ambush it
Help me to stand tall
Understand my choices
Respect my freedom
Above all,
Love me beyond my gender
I’m a living being
Bow down to the life in me
Love me skin to soul
Your God resides within me.